“I just have this natural suspicion about any narrative we make up about ourselves,” she says. In Trick Mirror, she returns again and again to selfhood, and how our identities are warped by the constant performance and monetization of them in the internet age. Lewis to DJ Screw to MDMA, but she spools them together into a big-picture theme. In conversation and writing, Tolentino’s thoughts - almost always candid and self-deprecating - seem to sprawl. “It’s the aural equivalent of a man listening to reggae for the first time in his race-car bed, slowly fucking the hole in a Kidz Bop CD,” she wrote. A witty 2014 evisceration of the song “Rude” by Canadian reggae-fusion band Magic! forecast inventive Tolentino takes to come. Tolentino, 31, started her career with the Hairpin before moving to Jezebel. “I need to kind of admit people read what I write.” “I’m kidding myself a little bit,” she says. “The reward is satisfying whatever itch made me write in the first place.”īut as an increasingly high-profile essayist for The New Yorker and the bestselling author of 2019’s Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion - a now-seminal text for millennials stumbling through late-stage capitalism and social media malaise - it’s getting harder to pretend she’s writing into a void. “I don’t know if it’s a self-protective impulse, or like a chip missing, but I tend to only think about making myself happy,” she says. Whenever she’s working on an essay, Jia Tolentino pretends nobody will read it.

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